3 Comments October 29th, 2009

Is this a good way to ask her out? My first time asking a girl for a date with her?

mexicanboy18 asked:


Before I go, here’s a link that’s relevant to my question. Answer it if you want since I still need help with this one.

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Apsiz19HWIOn6fpCOnr8Bozsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20081118081625AAfqjBw

Other than my premonitory dream, here’s how I wanna ask this girl out. She’s usually the very first person to come to class other than me. As soon as she comes in, I’m gonna say hello and I’m sure she’ll say hi back. Then I’ll start a small talk asking her if she’s heard of the Twilight movie or if she’s a fan of the books. If yes or no, I’ll still ask her if she’ll go to the movies with me at 12:40 p.m on the same day (this Friday) and I hope she says yes.

If she says yes, I should buy her movie ticket and some food, right? Also, how do I keep the date enjoyable? I also plan to walk her to the bus stop so she can go home.

Also, should I make sure we are the only ones in the classroom before I ask her out or should I get her alone so I don’t embarrass myself if I get rejected? What if things get really awkward for the rest of my college semester if she says no? What do I do if she says no?

I’m really nervous and this is my first attempt at asking a girl out. But dammit, I’m 18 and I need to come out of my shell and grow some huevos!

So will my plan work? If not, what do you suggest? Give me good suggestions if you have any.

VIVA LA RAZA!
I won’t see her until this Friday in English 826 at my college which is the only class we have together. I might ask her out if I see her earlier than that.

Other than that, I’m asking her out this Friday morning on the day the Twilight movie comes out.

Samuel

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3 Responses to “Is this a good way to ask her out? My first time asking a girl for a date with her?”

  1. Jackson Says:
    November 1st, 2009 at 11:21 pm

    Hayden

    Yes, that does sound like a good way of asking her out because its a casual thing. I think going to see the Twilight movie would be good, but if ur like one of those huge fans (starts screaming, crying, etc…) then don’t take her. You should also ask her out tomorrow just in case she doesn’t have other plans already.

    To keep the date enjoyable talk about whether she knows the movie, if she doesn’t that gives you something to talk about. If she does then talk about what your looking forward to seeing in the movie. Of course you should buy her food and the movie ticket woman like gentlemen!!

    Ask her when nobody is there for the same reason that if you get rejected you won’t be embarrassed.Sometimes you have to take risks in life and if she rejects you then she dumb for letting such a nice guy down. If she says no don’t act desperate just walk away and be like That’s fine, but we should definitely hang out some other time

    Everything sounds great just don’t flip out when you see the movie, stay relaxed and don’t stress over the date.

  2. Brooklyn Says:
    November 5th, 2009 at 1:00 am

    Jayden

    if this is the same girl that you were talking about that you had the dream about then no its not the one you need somebody better and its not her

  3. Andrea Says:
    November 5th, 2009 at 1:26 pm

    Steven

    say hey!, you and me, in the back seat of my car.

    haha that was funny:

    I should buy her movie ticket and some food, right? lol