Is it better to ask her out for a date or to hang out as friends first?

Mario C asked:


I am friends with this girl that I really like. At first, I thought it was just for her looks, but its not. I really liker. alot. and i dont want to screw this up because she just broke up with her bf last week. We talk casually several times a week. it’s not like best friends, but more like good acquaintences. Should I ask her out for a date or should I work my way up to it by asking to hang out outside of class and stuff? any help is great!

Christopher
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3 Responses to “Is it better to ask her out for a date or to hang out as friends first?”

  1. Austin Says:

    Michelle

    hello there mario.

    don’t rush things up. she just broke up with his guy.

    if you ask her out early on, she might doubt your sincerity.

    she will probably think that you’re taking advantage,

    of her current situation.

    give her some time.. just don’t fail to show her,

    that you’re always there for her, no matter what.

    you know when is the best time to make a girl fall inlove?

    it’s when they’re helpless and sad.

    and when some man shows kindness at those times,

    they might eventually fall hard.

    but don’t be so romantic way early dude.

    like what i said, she will doubt your true intentions.

    take it slowly. be the friend first. No. be the good friend.

    but stil,, you must always be on guard.

    some guys might be on their move already.. as you know,

    she’s single now –and quite ready for the next ride.

    good luck on you.

    don’t screw this chance! or else, i’ll hate you! =P

    ok then. just remember :

    GOOD THINGS COME TO THOSE WHO WAIT.

  2. Savannah Says:

    Jaden

    give her sometime and then just hangout as friends but be sure she is over her break up…….

  3. Caleb Says:

    Emma

    She just broke up with her boyfriend and her jumping into another dating situation isn’t a good idea. Now that’s not to say friends cant do things together. I would get closer to her you say your acquaintances, now its time to step that up. Be there for her she probably needs someone to talk to now.