6 Comments February 8th, 2010

How far do you expect to get after the first date?

Rubix Cube♥ asked:


How far do you expect to have gotten after the first date? Second date? Third?
Also what do you consider to be too far or not far enough?

Jackson
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6 Responses to “How far do you expect to get after the first date?”

  1. Alexis Says:
    February 10th, 2010 at 4:11 am

    Evan

    It all depends on how quick you two escalate.
    Sex on the first night out is kinda pushing it too hard, but making out isn’t :D teehee

  2. David Says:
    February 12th, 2010 at 10:38 pm

    Katelyn

    Hey, Im old fashion. Im 20 male. And I believe, Date only who you can see to be your mate Also, Dont feel pressured to do something you dont want too. In the long run you will have more respect for yourself. And if somebody gets upset with you because you didnt go to a certain area, then they dont respect you and were looking forward to something else.

    But when it comes to a first kiss and things like that. Its you who has to feel the passion. If you are ready they they would be happy to be on the recieving end of it.

  3. Michelle Says:
    February 13th, 2010 at 5:42 am

    Eric

    I would be happy with a goodnight kiss after the first date.

  4. Landon Says:
    February 15th, 2010 at 1:18 am

    Robert

    Love isnt about sex. Once you start the he wont leave ya alone.. sex sex sex. What? do you want to be loved for? or just sex . dont rush in it can turn into a misleading relationship

  5. Morgan Says:
    February 16th, 2010 at 8:02 pm

    Ariana

    First date: Getting to know each other, sensing what the other person is about, who she/he is, what are the things that makes you and him/her compatible.

    Second date: Same as first with a little touching such as holding hands or a cuddle now and then.

    As far as doing things far or not far enough depends on the comfort level you have with the person your seeing. There is no right or wrong way or far or not far enough. Its all about respect for yourself, and the person who are dating.

  6. Nicholas Says:
    February 19th, 2010 at 12:23 pm

    William

    assuming you’re both into each other, a goodnight kiss on the first date isn’t a bad idea. obvoiusly if you don’t like him, best not to lead him on. that said, if you both hit it off really well on the first date and end up kissing somewhere midway through, then making out is fine as long as you’re both comfortable with it.

    the key here is what you’re both comfortable with. both people should respect the others’ limits. there is no such thing as what someone can expect – dating is a partnership of two people, not a formula for how much time you have to spend to get a certain amount of sex. so, whatever you feel is what you want to do is what you and the other person should expect.

    i wouldn’t have sex on the first date (unless that was the entire point of the date, in which case its a hookup and not a date), or the second, or even the third, if i was serious about someone. if i was serious about someone sex would just not even be a topic really. we’d hang out as much as we want, where we want, and do whatever we want.. and then when the time is right or it just flows into the setting naturally if we went that far then it’d be fine. but its not like well, been with each other for this long, time to get it on… depending on you and the other person and what you’re both looking for, the timing and how far you go will change drastically.

    The most important thing is to keep YOUR limits and priorities in mind, because no one else is going to. Realize that it IS true that a guy who really cares about you and respects you will completely honor your limits – and probably will have some of his own, too. So respect yourself and respect him, it’s a two way street.

    Good luck. and if you need a hard and fast rule of thumb: it’s better to not go far enough – you can always make it up later. but if you go too far… all you can do about it is regret. and regret sucks. better to inch up to the line than to accidentally cross it.