How do you get back into dating after being married to a soul crushing, heartless hag?
Grade A Bastard asked:
Internet dating or clubs? what’s the best play here? early 30′s no kids.
Chase
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Internet dating or clubs? what’s the best play here? early 30′s no kids.
Chase
December 27th, 2009 at 1:23 pm
Kevin
you’re done, go gay
December 29th, 2009 at 5:20 am
Antonio
Going out with the girls..to parties…events…clubs
January 1st, 2010 at 2:45 pm
Jonathan
I think internet daiting, this way you can filter out what you don’t want in a partner…
January 2nd, 2010 at 4:55 pm
Anthony
You might need counseling. Otherwise, why are you still dwelling on your ex? It shouldn’t matter WHO you were married to. Maybe you aren’t ready yet.
January 4th, 2010 at 2:56 am
Isaiah
Well ease back into it. Burn though some sl*ts while you get your head right. Maybe get into some counseling, then find a nice girl that will treat you right and you can treat right.
PS, not all women are sl*ts, just sl*ts are sl*ts.
January 7th, 2010 at 1:58 pm
Charles
I had one of those. Be glad you got out before having kids. Internet dating is pretty safe. Don’t look for the one, just someone who can help you get your self confidence back. Go out with friends and talk to girls just to get into the habit again, so when the right one does come around you will have the confidence to approach her.
January 9th, 2010 at 10:37 am
Samantha
You should go to some clubs i don’t think internet dating is that reliable.
January 9th, 2010 at 1:48 pm
Henry
Let yourself heal before you try dating again. (a tip…calling ur ex wife names is not attractive.)
January 10th, 2010 at 11:09 pm
Angel
Are those the only options? Try getting into some new hobbies or social groups and expanding your circle of friends. Those new friends might be able to introduce you to someone who doesn’t end up being a heartless hag.
On a side note – you might want to get over that bitterness before you unleash it onto some other poor suspecting women.
January 11th, 2010 at 6:29 pm
Brooke
wow, you’re lucky… 30′s no kids. i would think you have all kinds of options.
join a gym
join a biking club
ask out your co-workers
go online
hang out at a local college… date the graduate students
January 14th, 2010 at 4:52 am
Rachel
Just do what you like to do, and find places where you feel comfortable and can be yourself. The WORST thing you can do, is to do things or go places that you do NOT like, because the people you will meet there already have different values and interests than you. Bars and clubs are NOT good places to meet decent people.
January 16th, 2010 at 6:44 pm
Thomas
…ermmm… not the best start I can imagine, but I can understand that you’ve been hurt. My advice would be to concentrate on meeting women you genuinely can hang out with and have fun with as friends, rather than than dates necessarily. I’m a big fan of the net personally, because you can have the time and leeway to chat at length and get to know each other without the physical distractions. It sounds like you’ve had your self esteem pretty much toasted, and I think random dating and bar hopping can make that worse *shudder*. Sometimes I think it’s better to look for common ground and companionship first- ye know, like if you’re an RPG geek, find a woman to play DD with etc- something like that, if for no other reason than to gather moral support from the opposite sex and get your confidence back. Good luck.